Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and encouragement, who encourages us in our every affliction, so that we may be able to encourage those who are in any affliction with the encouragement with which we ourselves are encouraged by God.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Instead of asking God why all these horrible things happen when I’m struggling, I try to remember that if I’m afflicted it’s because:
- God is providing an opportunity for me to turn to Him.
- God intends to use me as the subject for which someone to minister to.
- He intends for me to use that affliction to encourage and comfort someone else some day.
This is why the past is never a curse.
No matter who you were or what you did, God is using you, and will continue to do so, to tell people that He can still love them even after you’ve sinned in the seemingly worst way.
We are afflicted in every way, but not constrained; perplexed, byt not driven to despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying about in the body the dying of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our body.
2 Corinthians 4:8-11
In suffering, we enter into the passion with Jesus, as He simultaneously helps us through it. In His suffering, He reminds us, “wherever you are, wherever you’ve been, I’ve been there.” Not only is Jesus with us to be our Simon and help us to carry our cross, but the ones we love and the ones who are close to us bear our pain as well. We are not abandoned in suffering; if anything, it is in suffering that we are in the greatest company.
The last sentence of that verse is to remind us that while it was our sins that brought down Christ and condemned Him, and that repentance is necessary, we must never forget that it is in His death that we are brought to eternal life.
They conquered him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony …”
Revelation 12:11
Through God all things are possible. With the blood Christ shed for us on the cross and by giving God the glory in all things, we can crush Satan; if you live your life in away that gives God the glory and brings others to Him, evil will be conquered.
St. Therese of Liseux writes in “A Story of a Soul” a story about how when she was a child, she saw two demons playing about in her yard. When she looked upon them, they became terrified and fled from her. She said that God made use of this situation to show her that a soul in a state of grace never has any reason to fear the devil.
To be in a state of grace, we must realize the importance of the sacraments, especially reconciliation. God’s forgiveness and mercy is unending, and if we witness to that mercy by showing how we’ve been forgiven, multiple times, for our wrongs, we will be unstoppable.
I don’t know about you, but after I go to confession sometimes I just feel like I want to run around to everyone and tell them how glorious the Lord is. While there is nothing wrong with actually putting that idea into action, we have to remember what St. Francis of Assisi said: “Preach the Gospel at all times; use words if necessary.” Actions speak louder than words; if we go about loving and forgiving instead of just giving lip service to God and His works, it is then that we will give all for the greater glory of God.
I think the most important word of that verse, though, is the word “they.” It does not say “I conquered him,” referring to John. It does not say “he” or “she conquered him,” referring to one singular person. It says “they,” referring to multiple people banded together in a battle against Satan, and winning, with the blood shed for them on the cross and the word of their witness as weapons.
This is the biggest reminder that we are not alone. We have each other. Instead of just saying, “I’ll pray for you!” when a friend is suffering (which has become kind of our “Catholic calling card,” has it not?) and then abandoning them to endure the struggle alone, why not say, “Let me pray with you. Your cross is twice as heavy as my own. Let me be your Simon.”?
No matter what sin you have committed, you are loved and forgiven beyond measure. No matter how you struggle with that sin or with situations in your life, you are never abandoned.
Grace be with you, brothers and sisters.
- Jordan