Can a homosexual person go to heaven?
That question has been a highly popular and equally controversial one, especially in the last decade or so. One popular answer I often see goes, “it is impossible to be both Catholic and homosexual,” which is usually followed by a quote lifted from Leviticus condemning men lying in bed with another man as he would with a woman. This, and the refusal of the Church to allow same-sex marriage, are often used as justification in accusing the Church of being homophobic. Many criticize the Church for its “phobia” by arguing that homosexual tendencies are not products of choice, and so a person should not be punished for acting on love. While the first part may hold some truth in it, the latter part is a bit tricky.
For the first half, we must turn to philosophy for clarity. Sexuality, in the strictest philosophical meaning of the word, is a given. You’re either male or female, and your (ontological) being is affected by your sexuality. On this matter, you have no say. It’s the gender that is closer to control by the person. The tendency or inclination to be attracted to a person of the same sex is involuntary, as are all tendencies and inclinations. Since you did not will this, you aren’t held accountable for it. Free will comes into play when you choose to act on that tendency. Remember, regardless of whether it’s with the opposite or the same sex, entering a relationship or engaging in (consensual) sexual activity is a choice.
Though I believe that on the philosophical and objective level, the application of these concepts are equal between the hetero and the homo, I acknowledge that this is subjectively more difficult for those attracted to the same sex. I cannot begin to imagine what it is like to have to deal with the personal and social repercussions of being attracted to the same sex.
Now, since the latter half of the regular argument touches on the idea of punishment for actions, we must segue to doctrine. In Catholicism, man is not to be judged for actions that are not deliberate, so it follows that attraction (romantic or sexual) toward a person of the same sex is not a sin. It’s acting on it that might be. However, I would add an important explanatory note that is often overlooked – it isn’t so much the gender of the person as it is his/her commitment to chastity. Fornication, which is considered a sin, will always be fornication, whether it is done by a man and a woman, two men, or two women.
On that note, I would like to stress, although homosexuality is seen to be irregular (in a sense that it is unconventional; it digresses from the biological equation), any form of discrimination toward those who are attracted to the same sex is not condoned in Catholicism. So no, there is no justification in addressing them derogatorily, or in not giving them equal opportunity because of their sexual preference, and most especially not in carrying placards condemning them to hell. On the contrary, this is what our Catechism says:
2358 The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God’s will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.
Therefore, contrary to popular belief, being Catholic (and by extension, being called to heaven) and being attracted to the same sex are not mutually exclusive characteristics. In fact, it may even be through the difficulties brought about by latter that one can make the Catholic life more meaningful. And so, if you believe in heaven, then the famous LGBT movement slogan does ring true – it gets better. It gets better because whatever difficulties we face in life are not for nought. These difficulties form part of who we are, and it is through the way that we are made that we reach God. As Folco said to Dante as the latter finally reached Paradiso, in Heaven, men do not repent for their weaknesses on earth, but rejoice in the “Power that fashioned and foresaw” the wonderful potential of those faults.